The invitation for us is to be willing to work at removing all the selfcentred behaviours and attitudes which are obstacles in our relationship. These prevent each of us from becoming a better husband or a better wife and from putting each other first in our life together. When we prepare a way for each other we become a little more powerful, brighter, a clearer signpost of the way ahead for each other, our children, our families and the world around us. In human terms we can point the way to a new heaven and a new earth and the days stretch into infinity.